This was a visit never to forget as from that day I rather never see those people again. I know that family is important but sometimes they are just to much of a pain than a help.
First a little background:
I have 2 sorts of family:
- One is normal and those I like to see every month.
- The others are 'sentation family' or the medlesome.
In most of the families, some will follow me on this, there are family members that always want to know everything first from everybody. They also think that they are special because of this and the just want to brag towards others about what they know.
They think they are rich in live and indespensible. But in my eyes they are just sad people with no live.
But my 'senation family' is even worse then that. The are ranked at the top of trouble. My family is even going a step further and they interfere with your life to try to get into your will! This family gathered a part of their fortune with this tactic!
So to go on with my story:
The evening started oke, we were having a chat about our little wonder Rosalie and how well she is doing for a premature.
They asked questions about us and how we are doing. They also asked questions about things they already knew to test us that me and my wife were speaking the truth (we found out about this a few days later).
They were very hospitable and asked us to stay for diner. We agreed to have diner with them so the questions and the chat just continued.
During diner my Aunt asked us without a wink: 'Are you over it? Over the death of Emeline?'
My wife and I didn't know what we heard. How the f*** can you be over the death of your own child?
Anger and hatred came over me but I luckely could control myself and told her that we will never get over it. We could maybe place it one day but loosing a child isn't that easy. It has only been 3 months since Emeline died.
The pain just came right back to me and I just had it hard to keep it dry. My precious girl which I still miss badly.
A few days later I went to my parents house and they told me that 'the family' is talking about the godparents of Rosalie and Emeline.
My wife and I choose for Rosalie a family member and a best friend as godparents. For Emeline we wanted the same thing but we never finished choosing the godpartens besides my sister-in-law because it was hard enough knowing how someone would have been a godparents and had to give that back due to the death of our little girl.
So now the family isn't agreed that a best friend was choosen as a godparents... The reason behind it, is that my wife doesn't have a lot of family anymore so we had to choose someone outside the family and of course this needed to be the latest gossip for our sensation family.
So for all my followers and readers who lost a child or a loved one...I know your pain.
If you want to know the full story about Emeline just go to the 'Tribute to my little girl!' page.